B Baby Gay A gay, lesbian or bisexual person who has recently come to identify as such, or is newly out. Batty, Batty boy or Batty man A homophobic West Indian slur for a gay man. Bareback aka BB Sexual activity, especially sexual penetration, without the use of a condom. Usually referring to anal sex between men. Bear In gay circles, a man who is hairy and/or has facial hair, and a cuddly.